White
Ribbon Day in Waitakere
Join the parade against family violence
Banner making competition
Behind closed doors
What is White Ribbon Day?
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Join the parade against family violence
Show your support for the campaign to stamp out family violence by joining the
Waitakere White Ribbon Day parade on Wednesday, November 25.
The parade is a chance for Waitakere people to stand together and say "Family
Violence is Not OK".
The parade will start at 11.15am from Mount Lebanon Lane in Henderson before
making its way down Great North Road, through central Henderson, finishing at
Falls Park around midday where people can enjoy lunchtime entertainment with
family.
People will also have the chance to view the Behind Closed Doors exhibition
which has been created by artists and community groups across the city.
The exhibition will be open from Monday, November 23 to Friday, November 27 at
the Global Café, Henderson.
White Ribbon Day is the international day for elimination of violence against
women and the White Ribbon movement was established in Canada in 1981
by men working to end violence against women.
Waitakere's response was to establish the Mayoral Taskforce on Family Violence
in 2007, launched by Mayor Bob Harvey and Dr Pita Sharples.
The taskforce is made up of a network of national and regional leaders, local family
violence and prevention agencies, the council, police and health officials.
Deputy Mayor Penny Hulse also sits on the taskforce and says one of its
successes has been to get all these different groups working together for
the same goal.
"That unity and commitment has sent a really powerful message to Waitakere and
the rest of the country that this city is not going to tolerate violence in our
community.
"No one can do it alone. We all have a part to play."
And her plea is that people don't turn a blind eye to what might be going on.
"It requires courage but it is critical for people to get help and for friends
and family to tell the many support groups, such as police, if you know
something is going on next door."
The White Ribbon Parade 2009 is hosted by Waitakere City Council, Waitemata
District Health Board and Waitemata District Police, along with the WAVES
network of family violence prevention and intervention agencies.
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Banner making competition
Got something to say on family violence?
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| Banner making competition for White Ribbon Day parade |
How about making a banner and joining
the Waitakere White Ribbon parade. You could win one of five family passes to
West Wave Aquatic Centre.
Banners must feature a white ribbon and be at least 1.5 metres wide and 1m deep
and be carried by at least two people at all times during the parade. Individual
or group entries welcome.
Remember this is a family event so keep the messages respectful. Some examples
from last year include "speak out", "you can help" and "you can make a
difference." Banners will be judged while you walk. Judges will be looking
out for visual impact and
strength of message.
Register your entry:
It is free to enter but you need to register first. Just complete the
registration form below:
Note: Please see banner making competition flyer for full terms
and conditions.
Note: You will need to have
Adobe Acrobat Reader
installed on your computer in order to view and print these documents. For
help opening PDF files or tips on copying information see Helpful
Tips.
White Ribbon Day
2009 - Banner Making Competition Flyer (Size 948K)
White Ribbon Day
2009 - Banner Making Registration Form (Size 82K)

Behind Closed Doors
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| Donna Sarten's Door 2008 |
The result of an exciting collaboration between the local arts
community and the social sector, this exhibition promotes White Ribbon Day on
November 25th.
The Behind Closed Doors Project is a community arts project that creatively
profiles the issue of family violence in Waitakere and positively reinforces the
Family Violence - It's Not OK! message.
Reclaimed house doors have been developed as art works that reflect the abuse
and family violence that occurs 'behind closed doors' as well as the pathways
away from violence and expressions of positive relationships and families.
Agencies such as Barnardos, Brainwave Trust, Man Alive, Neighbourhood Support
and the Waitakere Youth Council have partnered with artists and designers from
across the city to produce the doors specifically for White Ribbon Day 2009.

What is White Ribbon Day?
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White Ribbon Day 2009 poster
courtesy of the Families Commission. |
White Ribbon Day is the international day for the elimination of violence
against women. The White Ribbon Campaign (WRC) is the largest effort in the
world of men working to end violence against women (VAW). In over 55
countries, campaigns are led by both men and women.
Wearing a white ribbon is a personal pledge to never commit, condone or remain
silent about violence against women and girls.
In New Zealand most violence by men against women takes place in the home - with
an average of 14 women a year killed by their partners or ex-partners. Police
deal with more than 80,000 family violence reports a year.
In 2009 White Ribbon Day acknowledges the many men willing to show leadership
and commitment to promoting safe, healthy relationships within families. The
campaign also encourages men to challenge each other on attitudes and behaviour
that are abusive.
See
the 2009 White Ribbon Day posters on the National White Ribbon Day website.

Do you need help?
Violence happens in many ways:
- Physical - slaps, punches, kicks, weapons
- Emotional - making you think you're crazy
- Verbal - put downs, harassment
- Threats - to your safety and safety of others
- Isolation - keeping you away from your friends, family and support
- Sexual - molestation, rape, coercion
- Financial - keeping you financially dependent
- Intimidation - living in fear
Life doesn't have to remain like this!
You can call for help:
24 Hour Services
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Waitakere Police |
09 839 0600 (in an emergency please dial 111) |
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Victim Support |
09 839 0677 |
| Western Refuge/Viviana |
09 836 1987 |
Weekday Services
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| Waitakere Abuse and Trauma Counselling Service |
09 837 2491 |
| Man Alive |
09 835 0509 |
| Pacific Island Safety & Prevention Project |
09 832 2555 |
| Tika Maranga (Maori Women's
Refuge) |
09 833 9653 |
| Tu Wahine Trust |
09 838 8700 |
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WAVES Trust |
09 838 4834 |
Websites
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Are you OK? |
http://www.areyouok.org.nz |
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